A true friend is someone who is willing to listen . If you take time to listen to your friend , you will build strong relationship . How can you be a good listener ?

First of all , you must listen with not only your ears , but also your eyes and your heart . To understand this , you need to know what communication consists of . According to a study only 7 per cent of communication comes from the words we use . Our tone of voice makes up 40 per cent . The balance of 53 per cent comes from body language .

Next , focus on your friend when you listen to him or her .Put yourself in your friend shoes . You need to try to see things as your friend does . Avoid thinking of your own feeling .

Finally , listen because you truly care . Don't pretend to care because your friend will know it . Don't try to be a psychologist or a judge . Just be a friend .


P/s : Ni ah oral BI aku . Pendek kan ? Malas nak hafal panjang panjang . Always guna ayat tu jadi panduan ♥

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